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Month: June 2022

Two Toe-tally Terrific Ways To Use Your Stupid Time Machine

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It’s a war–a war on bugs, that is.

But I think I have may chosen the wrong side…


“Man…it’s just the darnedest thing. Blue-green skin…I’ve never seen anything like it…”

“Wait…what?!? What skin?? Where??”

In retrospect, I don’t know why I thought casually mentioning to my grad school roommates that “I got blue-green skin” would be met with “Ooh! How interesting!”

Yeah, on second thought “what in the actually f***?!?” seems like the proper response. But, alas, hindsight is 20/20 and this cat was already out of its bag.

“Huh? What? Oh yeah, it’s just that my athlete’s foot has taken on a blue-green hue. In my 25 or so years of having athlete’s foot, this is—“

“Whoa! Whoa! Whoa! Back this train up a sec! First, off: you have athlete’s foot and didn’t tell us?!?” Sue1Almost her real name. was apparently unhappy with this revelation.

“We share the same shower, you prick!” Patty2Again, almost her real name. quickly clarified exactly why they were so pissed at me.

“And 25 years?!? Dude, you just turned 26! What the heck?!?” Also apparent: Sue’s grasp of basic math.

“Well, it’s not that big of a deal, really. I’ve had chronic athlete’s foot pretty much my entire life. You see, my toes unnaturally curve onto each oth—“

“No big deal?!? You don’t get to decide whether or not it’s ‘a big deal’—we do.”

“No, no, you don’t understand, it’s pretty much just a ‘me’ problem.”

“No, you understand. Man, we don’t want none of yo’ nasty foot fungus. So here’s the deal: you’re wearing sandals in the shower until it clears up.”

“And that’s non-negotiable.”

“Dammit.” I muttered under my breath. I knew that I had no choice but to acquiesce.

“Ok, fine. I’ll go get it checked out and in the meantime I suppose I’ll wear flip-flops in the shower. I really regret saying anything though—all this drama is completely unnecessary, in my humble opinion…”

I just had to throw that last comment in there, didn’t I? Patty for one sure wasn’t bemused by it.

“Well, in my humble opinion, I can’t believe you even considered not telling us! Bad roommate. Bad roommate!”

Ok, ok, so they had a point–and if I could travel back in time and provide some spiritual counsel to my younger self, I’d tell that jackass to be more thoughtful and considerate of those with whom he shares personal spaces.

Even though the both of me know ----- well that “what they didn’t probably would never have hurt them”…


“So there I was at the gym locker room, and I realized ‘oh crap, I forgot my shower sandals!’ True story…”

‘Twas a few years later, and I found myself regaling my sole3Pun intended. roommate—aka my wife, aka The Boss Lady—with the perhaps the world’s most boring gym-related story.

“And then what happened?!? What did you do? Shower in your sneakers? Skip the shower altogether? Tap into your inner MacGuyver and make some sandals solely out of paper towels?”

“Huh? What do you mean ‘what did I do?’ I just took a shower barefoot. Duh.”

“Oh my god! Who knows what disease or calamity you could have picked up from the shower floor! How could you put your feet in such grave and imminent danger?!?”

“Listen Toots…um…how do I say this? Oh! I know! Even though this is the year 2009, I figure I could best illustrate my point with a clip from the August 21, 2011 episode of the hit AMC TV show, Breaking Bad.”

*hops into time machine, buzzes back almost instantaneously with the DVD boxset of the complete series of Breaking Bad*

*Ahem* “In this scene, the role of my toes will be played by Walter White…”


Now hop in your dumbass time machine one last time with me and fast forward to the present, whence a pandemic ravishes the globe. Mask-wearing seems to cyclically fall in and out of vogue.

Free-facers are shunned like pariahs. Faithful maskers are mocked. And thus the pendulum swings back and forth.

Which camp do I fall into, you ask? Well, let me tell you a little story. A little story about a little mask…

Once upon a last week, a very close friend of mine went to an indoor concert at a venue where masking was optional. What did my friend do? Well, he and his date were 2 out of about 8 total people at that show who actually opted to wear a masks. Because…seriously, what the ----- are those 2,7044https://dukeperformances.duke.edu/venues/dpac-durham-performing-arts-center/ other people thinking?!?

Funny thing, though: it’s hard to prove how hardcore of a fan you are when no one can see you accurately lip-syncing with a mask plastered over your face. But, for one brief moment, in an attempt to prove to his date that he indeed knew the words to some of the songs at this show he had dragged her to, he removed his mask, belted out 3 lines of The Remedy directly in his date’s face, and promptly replaced the mask back on his face.

Now, unbeknownst to this very close friend of mine–in spite of over two years of diligently masking no matter how uncool it became (and zero infections)–ye ol’ COVID had finally come for him, a cold hard fact that was confirmed approximately 5 hours after this particular concert.

(“You gotta be ----- kidding me!” he thought, no doubt.)

But, one to always find the silver lining in any situation, he later told me, “You know, I sometimes wonder if I infected anybody at that concert–besides my date–when I took my mask off for those 10 seconds. But then I realized, hey, if those unmasked ----- picked up anything from me, then that one’s kinda on them.”

He continued, “Yeah, I could feel at least half of them staring at me and my multi-colored mask, mocking me in their heads. But the joke’s on them, cuz as it turns it out…”

*dramatically whips head to the side to look Camera 2 dead in the eye*

“…I am the one who knocks!”

Me. It’s me. I am the one who knocks…*cough cough*


Content created on: 25/26 June 2022 (Sat/Sun)

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A Special Message For The Man Who Demands A Refund

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You want your money back, Dad?

That’s funny, cuz I’m the one getting short-changed here…


“Karma is a biscuit–“

Wait. That doesn’t sound quite right…

Oh, yeah, that’s right…what the proverbial “they” say is actually ‘karma is a b*tch’, but for some reason we don’t use that ‘b’ word in these parts of the internets…I guess you get the lame ‘biscuit’ instead when one indecisively attempts to be politically correct and/or non-misogynistic, yet still wants to spit out certain quotes that reference colloquialisms involving female dogs.

Anywho…so y’all know what I mean when I say ‘karma is a biscuit,’ then, right?

*wink, wink*

Well, if you’re wondering why I bring up the concept of karma–or as we white appropriatin’ folk say, “what goes around comes around”–may I turn your attention to Exhibit B: aka last week’s tale about my first vehicle, Peppermint Paddy.

Seriously, if you haven’t read it yet, take a few moments to go back and enjoy it. Otherwise the rest of this won’t make as much sense. Ya really gotta get the full context to appreciate it, ya know?

So…you read it, right? Sure…sure you did.

Just in case you maybe didn’t, the brief summary is that my wonderful father gave me a gently used farm truck for my first vehicle in high school. When the starter went out and when, many weeks later, he decided to get around to fixing it, what appeared to be yet another act of parental altruism just turned out to be a ruse to get free labor out of me and my friends. And then he appropriated my truck for his own purposes. Yup…that sounds about white–er, I mean ‘right’.

But even if you didn’t read all of the story, at least you read the punchline at the end right, so I don’t have to remind you how it all ended.

Yes, yes, you already knew that the final zinger was “Why, that son of a biscuit…”


So now that you’re all caught up, you surely understand that I couldn’t help but go full-on schadenfreude when that very same starter we replaced in last week’s episode lasted him…wait for it…a whole whopping 2-and-a-quarter days before going kaput.

Not being one to tolerate any crappy craftsmanship unless it was his own, Dad promptly pulled the busted starter out (well, he made me pull it out, actually) and marched right on down to the local Co-op–which, in no relevance to this story but should be noted anyways, was managed by the dad of none other than my buddy from the original Peppermint Paddy fiasco, Phillip K. Ballz–and demanded an exchange for the defective part they had sold him.

Now, PKB’s dad, being an honest businessman (unlike some other dads in this story *ahem*), obliged and promptly replaced the now-completely-ruined starter with a brand new one, a $79 value (that’s $143.87 in 2022 dollars, you know).

And though it was April by this point in time, it quickly started to feel much more like Groundhog Day. Not the holiday itself, but the 1993 Bill Murray sci-fi comedy about living the same ----- day over and over.

After that second starter suffered the same suspicious fate as the first, Dad marched once again back down to the Co-op and gave them an earful about selling such cheap parts…then promptly asked for another exchange, because, well, we got to keep the family business in business, and fixing his own ----- truck still wasn’t an option.

“What are the odds?!? Either that whole dang factory is just pumping out worthless starters, or–more likely–they’re intentionally sending all their rejects to me!” Dad said after demanding an exchange for the fifth starter that somehow had mysteriously broke within two uses.

The whole time I was shaking my head and laughing at the same time. Like, how was Dad failing to grasp Occam’s Razor: “The simplest explanation is most often the right one”? No, instead the man was literally coming up with highly, highly improbable conspiracy theories instead of facing the cold hard truth that was staring him in the face.

Like, Dude, maybe–just maybe–it’s not the five–no, now six–starters that are what’s broken. Perhaps you should take Peppermint Paddy back to the wheat field where you found her and ask it for a refund.

The funny thing is you’d actually get that refund, because, ya know, you spent a whopping $0 on it.

Anyways, the whole literal and metaphorical situation couldn’t help but make me think of a particular “inspirational” poster I once saw at a Hot Topic in the mall.

Dad, this very special Father’s Day point of the story goes out to you (RIP, Papa Bob):

And you know what? In the end I find that I love you all the more for all that rascally dysfunction you breathed into my life.

Why? Because you taught me that when it comes to being a father, there is nothing more important than being “a man, a character.”

*checks notes*

Oh, wait. Oh, fork me. That was supposed to be “a man of character.”

Son of a biscuit


Speaking of which, Happy Father’s Day to all you dirty sons of biscuits out there!

Go ahead–sit back, relax, and enjoy the fruits of the fruits of your loin’s labor!


Content created on: 10/11/17 June (Fri/Sat/Fri)

Breaking Now: The Nominees For Father Of The Year Are…

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Ah, it’s that time of year to fondly remember those men we call ‘Dad’.

Just try not to remember TOO many details, though…


“Hey, son! I got a new starter for your pickup–why don’t you and Phillip K. Ballz1Do I have to point out that’s not his real name? But may I point out that Phillip K. ----- is a real name? come on outside and help me get it up running again!”

Despite it being one miserably cold Kansas spring evening, you better believe that it wasn’t more than 30 seconds later that me and my bestie, ol’ PKB, found ourselves on our backs on the half-frozen ground, one holding a flashlight and the other passing parts and tools to my dad. But lemme tell you boy: the pain, suffering and sacrifice was going to all be worth it.

Getting ol’ Peppermint Paddy up and zooming around Rolla and surrounding countryside again? I mean, what more could two teenagers with 1 driver’s license, 0 reliable modes of transportation, and 31 total years between them ever dream of?

Now, I need to back up a sec because you’re probably thinking, “Hey, who or what is this Peppermint Paddy gal? Obviously, you’re trying to retroactively name a vehicle from your youth, but you’ve never mentioned any other sweet, sweet rides other than Kountry Kommodities and Moby D*ck. And that one tractor of your neighbors that you royally effed up.”

While ’tis true that Moby D*ck was my first true vehicular love as a teen, before that there was Peppermint Paddy: the old red-and-white striped ’87 Chevy Silverado flatbed farm pickup that used to be my Grandpa Harold’s before he passed away. It had been sitting abandoned in one of our fields halfway on the other side of Morton County for a good 4-5 years, when one day, my dad says to me, “Son, I’m tired of hauling your ass to and from school every day. Now that you finally got your license, it’s about time we hauled that pickup out of the weeds and fixed it up so it can be your very own. And, also, so you will stop bothering my wife2I.e., my stepmom. to let her lend you her sweet, sweet Eagle Vision every time your want to go bum around in town with you city-slicker friends like that dipshit, PKB.”

And let me tell you something: you would be surprised at how out-of-my-mind excited I was to hear those words coming out of his mouth. Sure, one might listen to him and hear: “I’m going to spend almost exactly zero dollars on a vehicle for you, and instead going to give you this old, stinky, mouse-infested, barely-running, incredibly unsexy, busted-ass pickup that I totally forgot we even owned.”

Or, if you were like me, desperate for any set of wheels that could transport me off and away from the boring-ass farm any time I wished, you would have heard: “Hark, my youngest and most beloved son, behold: something that barely qualifies as a ‘vehicle’, all for thine own sole possession! Verily, I know you have wept countless nights out of desperation for such a miracle, and, lo, I have heard your cries, and I have answered them.”

In other words, I cherished that gift like he had just given me the keys to a shimmering-purple Lamborghini instead. Sure, it actually had been mouse-infested when I took possession of it (both dead and alive, and plenty of murine fecal matter thrown in just for funs).

And it was greasy. And it was dirty.

And it was stinky because Grandpa had been a smoker.

In fact, it was such a teen-girl-turn-off, Hot-Wheels-hot-mess, that for a moment I had to question my memory of the chronological events of my high school days on the farm, because I’m almost certain that–though impossible without the aid of time travel–the legendary “Dirty Bob” must have been driving it regularly before I got it. Dirty Bob–you remember him, right?

But I digress; back to my love of this motorized means of transport: I mean, who has two thumbs and would spend an entire dreary Saturday in March with a bucket of soap and water, scrubbing down every square inch of a piece-of-shit pickup, inside and out?

I’ll tell you who: this guy! *points at self with both thumbs*

And, seeing as how, well, you’re never going to get some of those particular smells to ever truly go away, I even treated my baby to not one…not two…but THREE of those vanilla and/or coconut-scented cardboard trees you hang from the rear-view mirror. You know, the ones that most people think don’t actually exist outside of the smoke-filled taxi cabs of the silver screen.

Ah, yes, my Sweet Chariot…she swung low for me and carried me away from my boring-ass home on the farm maybe 10-15 times before her starter went out, and instead of finding herself abandoned in some wheat field, she found herself abandoned in our driveway where she would sit for weeks before that fateful day Dad came home with a new starter in hand…


“Oh my god, I know sometimes he can be a real oaf sometimes, but sometimes Dad can be the best dad in the whole world!”

I couldn’t help mildly gushing to PKB behind my dad’s back while we both lay there in the dirt with random rocks indubitably poking us in the kidneys. Dad had just ran inside to grab one last tool before we put the finishing touches on ol’ Peppermint Paddy’s new starter, and we were taking the opportunity to let our inner giddy schoolgirls shine.

It would be an understatement to say that we were both pleasantly surprised by Dad’s somewhat out-of-character act of altruism, yet there we were, on the verge of having a ride that would allow us to actually hang out after school once again.

“All right, boys, fire it up! Let’s see if we’re back in business!”

I hopped in the driver’s seat as PKB dusted himself off before slamming the hood shut. Dad, for his part, just stood back to admire his handiwork as I held my breath and turned the key.

“VAAAAAROOOOOOM!”

She fired right up just like the day she was driven off the lot.

I hopped out of the pickup and on over to PKB, where we proceeded to exchange a copious and unnecessary amount of high-fives.

“We’re back in business! We’re back in business! We’re back in business, Babyyyyyyy!” we chanted.

Dad looked at us kind of funny and flashed his sh*t-eating grin like he knew some secret we didn’t or something.

“What do you mean ‘we’, Kemosabis? You two turds aren’t back in nobody’s business. When I say ‘we’re back in business,’ what exactly did you think I mean?”

“Well, Kind And Loving Father, you did just fix my pickup, no?”

“Son, what kind of ‘business’ are you ever involved in? Pfft! I’m talking about the family business, where real work is done. Our farm is back in business.”

“Uh, dude, what is your old man talking about?” PKB, in his sincere confusion, unintentionally did one of his best Beavis and Butthead to date (’twas 1997, after all).

“Oh, I forgot to tell you? Yeah, um, so I’ll be needing to use your pickup in the morning. And for the indefinite future. My pickup blew a transmission line and I’m not sure when we’ll have enough money to get that fixed, so…”

*crickets*

“Yeah, well anyways thanks for your help boys. I couldn’t have fixed ‘er without ya.”

Why, that son of a biscuit


Content created on: 11/12 June 2022 (Sat/Sun)

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What Happens When Your Love Of Melons Gets Out Of Hand?

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Sure, the feel of melon in your mouth feels great.

But sometimes, son, it’s better you just wait…


“Oh crap, I forgot the watermelon!”

Sheer terror and panic overtook my system as my world seemingly came crashing down around me right there in the grocery store.

“Well, we can’t have that!” the clerk empathized. “After all, that’s what the holidays are all about…”

“Aw, man! First I have to deal with spending the Fourth of July all by myself, and now this unspeakable tragedy? Woe is me!”

Throughout all this drama, the clerk somehow managed to keep his cool.

“Uh…so why don’t you just grab some from the produce section before I finish you checking out?”

That man is gosh-darn hero, I tell you. What would I have done without his sage advice? Celebrate my solo Independence Day without any refreshing sandia to salve the wounds of my abandoned ego? We can’t have that!

“Be right back!” I shouted over my shoulder as I took off in my cheap-ass flip-flops towards my soon-to-be prized possession.

About halfway there, though…

“FWIP!”

The front edge of my left sandal caught on the polished tile floor and bent in half.

“FWOP!”

My entire body flung forward culminating in my cheekbone colliding with the floor.

Fortunately, at 8:30 pm on a national holiday, everyone else has a real social life and are spending time with friends and family instead of trying to gather the supplies for a sad little BBQ-for-one at the grocery store. In other words, there were no eye-witnesses to my little spill, and so my ego wasn’t nearly as bruised as it could have been.

My body, on the other hand, was a little bit more banged up. As I got up and dusted myself off, a cursory systems check of my corporeal being noted that, while I hadn’t lost a tooth or broken my frickin’ cheek, I had done gone and busted up one of my big toes pretty bad. Yup…was gonna lose that nail.

Ugh…what a stupid, stupid, embarrassing way to injure ones’ self. But, if I was going to sacrifice well-being for some ----- watermelon, I was sure as schnitzel going to get my watermelon. I nonchalantly as possible scooped up a quarter of a watermelon–because, hey, I don’t need to eat a whole melon all by myself–and casually sauntered back to the clerk, who by now had to be wondering if I had been kidnapped or something.

“Wha–?!? What the hell happened to you?” He was clearly shocked by the tattered state I was in.

“Look man, have you ever hunted down a wild watermelon and killed it with your bare hands? You’re just not the same afterwards. It changes you, man, it changes you…”


“Whoa, bus!”

I had been power-walking to the bus stop in hopes of beating the bus I desperately needed to catch, but was still about a hot minute from our rendezvous point when I saw the speedy little ----- whizz past me.

It was a few weeks after my 4th of July pity-party1One that ended with me sitting on the roof of our house and watching fireworks off in the distance…which doesn’t actually sound that bad, so I guess you could say it had a happy-ish ending. You know, apart from the toe and cheekbone and what-not. and I was trying to catch a ride home after a long day in the lab–I had a super-hot date with Just Chillaxin’–but of course I was running slightly late, so I had to accept the fact that if I wasn’t on that bus when it pulled off, then it was all on me.

“Hold that bus!” I shouted…in my head, because, you know, I would probably look like an idiot shouting that on a mildly crowded college campus.

I could see off yonder the bus roll up and start to let the more timely passengers board.

“Well, sh*t, if I start awkwardly hustling/sprinting now, I just might make it…”

I had to make a judgement call, and I had to make it fast.

“On the other hand…”

I looked down at my blackened toe, which at this point featured a toenail so much on the verge of falling off that it was basically just flapping in the wind.

“…maybe I’ll just keep strolling at a casual pace. No need to hurt myself again, especially when I can just catch the next bus in 10 minutes.”

Proud of myself for actually having a grip on myself this time–unlike during the Very Unfortunate Watermelon Incident–I carried on my way like I didn’t have a care in the world.

As I got closer, I noticed that the bus hadn’t pulled away yet.

“Easy, Big Fella,” I told myself as I was once again tempted to make a dash for it.

Fifteen paces away, still the bus stood inexplicably stationary. Still I strolled.

Ten paces: “Ah, poo, I just know it’s going to pull away when I get tantalizing close–but…must…resist…urge to scurry.”

Five paces: “Okay, Universe, I get it–this is some kind of cruel prank you’re pulling on me. Just break my heart and get it over with!”

Four…

Three…

“No, not even skipping is an option–don’t you dare!”

Two…

One…

Zero…

Still lolly-gagging casually af, I walked up to the still-open doors of the bus and, just as I step on, the doors closed behind me…

The other passengers were in awe.

“It’s as if he knew all along that the bus was going to wait for him!” I overheard one particular comely female passenger whisper under her breath.

“Ooh, now, a man with confidence like that? That really gets my bus’ engine revving, if you know what I mean, wink, wink,” her equally buxom seatmate intimated, thinking I was out of earshot.

“Yeah,” quietly piped up yet another member of the hot-girl party, “and with bruises like that, he’s no doubt brimming with non-toxic masculinity. He looks like a man who would be the living sh*t out of someone to defend my honor…”

I couldn’t stop a sly grin from creeping across my face.

“You may have one the earlier battle, Watermelon, but it looks like I won the war. And now, speaking of ‘melons’, this melon-farming victor needs to enjoy his spoils.”

I wrapped up my conversation with my imaginary fruit foe, and turned my attention elsewhere.

“Hello, ladies…”


Content created on: 3 June 2022 (Friday)

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